Love in 90 Days (Hardcover: 316 pages)

Love in 90 Days

By JaimeW  Jul 28, 2008 | 3 out of 4 found this Love in 90 Days review helpful

Pros: Very Optimistic

Cons: Very Sexist and Anti-Feminist

This advice goes against the egalitarian relationship arrangement that feminists strive for in having both sexes to have fulfillment. Do not take a cheater back. It's not about forgiving unless to forgive to move on. You do not deserve a cheater.... This is very bad advice for there are people who want to go back to a cheater for they have love, memories, or are not able to let go. Do so. If someone is able to hurt you like this and do this type of behavior and you didn't do that to that person then something is wrong. If that person was able to kiss you goodbye in the morning and go to work with you thinking and trusting that everything was all right and that person purposefully has an affair then that is not the right person for you. You need to move on because there are over 5 billion people on this earth and that one person is nothing compared to someone that will really love you and think twice about hurting you in such a way like this. Don't tolerate it. Neither sex should tolerate it. A person is not in the knowing when they make a decision to cheat. It's not your fault either. It's that person's psychological problem. Not yours. It's better to not move on. This author thinks just because you forgive and let that person come back that it will be Disney's fairy tale bullshit when he or she comes back. You know that won't happen. You will remember. The good times will be well maybe I shouldn't feel this fully for it might really hurt the next time if I get too connected this time. Or better yet, he or she will blame you and say what was wrong to cause this and you will try to "behave" your best or make it better. Move on, move on, move on. This is a cycle of abuse especially if the person says what you did wrong. A person is able to break up with someone before moving on and one is very aware when they orgasm. I am sure they knew that they were cheating on you and didn't think of just how devestated you would be when they did so. Please do not tolerate this type of behavior from anyone. No one deserves this. You move on, you move on then. You don't have to cheat to make a statement. This information is quite outdated and I believe it goes against the third wave feminist movement and this author is female. This is absurb. This is a subgroup going against their own group. You deserve the best, though, and that's for either sex who has a partner who cheats. Someone will love you better and I don't care how good they treated you or how good looking they were. You will find another who treats you better always because cheating is a slap to the face of disrespect and it ruins your trust and worth of yourself. Read more Less